top of page

Tantric Benefits for Women

Updated: Aug 2, 2021

The beneficial aspects of Tantra Massage are many.

The art of Tantra has been practiced for over 9,000 years. It’s origins have been traced back to the Himalayan Mountains in India.

Tantra also just plain takes time. Like a lot of tantric couples, my partner and I reserve 3-4 hours for tantra every week. Sex is sacred because of its role in accessing peak experiences of love, oneness, and healing. Humans have an innate need for peak experiences of bliss, merging, and ecstasy. We have a deep longing for the (re) union of sex and spirit, for union with the Divine.

When we access expanded states of consciousness through sex we validate our intuitive sense that sex can be worship and that worship can be erotic. Tantra and other paths of Erotic Spirituality teach us to embrace and honor the body as a temple of Spirit, rather than trying to deny our natural sexual impulses.

So when we bless, purify, or honor the body as part of a sexual encounter, when we bond more deeply as a result of lovemaking, or when sexual union catapults us into higher consciousness, we make sex sacred. Acknowledging the oneness that we are. Tantric philosophy holds the premise and understanding that we are all one – and there is truly no separation between and among ourselves, nor between ourselves and the Divine Source.

The beneficial aspects of Tantra Massage are many. A woman can learn to access all of her orgasmic potential and achieve whole body orgasm. But for such success, it is necessary to remove any sexual blockages which, unfortunately, most people have. These blockages are sometimes physical, energetic, or emotional, but in many cases they are psychosomatic and related to the past traumas.

Sexual Repression makes us Feel:

* Unexcited

* No motivation

* Feeling trapped in your habits

* Lack of energy and vitality

* Low sex drive

* Low self-esteem

* Feeling frustrated, restless and unsettled

This impacts your whole life because it affects relationships with our partners, children, friends, family and the world at large, I am a believer that we teach our lovers how we want to be treated, to create that level of reverence with the masculine, firstly we must begin with how we feel about ourselves.

It’s no secret women thrive by having good relationships, and we wither away without them. Yet, an Alpha Woman, an empowered woman, a Shakti Queen does not entirely define herself solely through her relationships. She realizes that what matters are not the type of relationship she may have, it is the way she relates within each relationship that matters.

A woman is, in essence, YIN. Like the ocean she is deep, mysterious, watery. Feminine sexual power can be frightening, from having the power to host another life within you to accessing what seems like limitless bliss. In the Taoist traditions YIN is considered inexhaustible, cool, earthy, receptive and fertile. Most women today have lost contact with their deeper YIN essence and have cultivated primarily the YANG, or more surface aspects of themselves.

The more comfortable a woman can become with her erotic responses, the more she will be able to relax into the experience of receiving. This is largely due to dispelling the fear of the ‘unknown’ and having a deeper understanding and acceptance of one’s own unique sexual responses, thus enabling the ability to relax and receive. I have personally found the

relationship between the heart and yoni (female genitals) to be very powerful. The more open the heart, the more juicy the yoni. The more love involved, the more ejaculate is produced.

One great secret of Tantra is the art of transforming emotions, which are just energy in motion. Harmful emotions impede the enjoyment of life and damage our health, they arise as physical poisons in our body and are a main cause of degenerative aging and relationship pain. “Issues in

the tissues”!

By transforming these emotions accumulated emotional toxins are released from the being and an ease in our emotional life arises, we are happier and more loving. It is called “the great equanimity”.

the benefits of Tantric massage are

It relaxes your body Improves your Breathing Emotional Healing Experience Pleasure

Sexual empowerment

Heart Opening

Multi-Orgasmic Waves Improves Consciousness and the Process of Letting go Energy awareness and consciously directing it

Enhanced relationships and personal power

Full Body Orgasmic States of Being

Tingling, Shaking or Spasming Vibrations

A Sense of Integration to Yourself & All That Is

Limitless Bliss, Deep Inner Peace & Relaxation

Sensitizes the female genitalia

Increases sexual awareness and orgasmic potential

The inability to feel safe in one’s own skin

Fear of intimacy

Fear of touch

Lack of trust in relationships,

Lack of respect for one’s own sexuality, reducing promiscuity.

An ability to trust

A willingness to be vulnerable,

An ability to surrender,

A connection of rich depth, unity & intimacy

Nourishing & satisfying sex for the mind, body & soul.

Releasing Our Body Armour of Shame, Guilt & Fear

Knowing Your Personal Boundaries

Integrating Your Self Worth

Returning to Innocence

Transforming Numbness

Increasing Your Sensitivity by Feeling More

Claiming Our Pleasure

Giving Permission For Our Desire

Getting to Know Our Bodies

Body Acceptance


Recent Posts

See All


bottom of page