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Tantra Can Help Reignite a Sexless Partnership


The first flush of passionate connection experienced by long-term couples sometimes fades as time passes, you felt an overwhelming attraction to your current mate the moment you met. The effects of this were felt emotionally as well as physically, you two couldn't stay away from one other and were constantly touching. You moved in together and immediately felt superior to everyone else you never thought you'd find yourself in a relationship without sexual excitement. But now, that was then.


You've had to adjust to a no-sex long-term relationship over time, Things have stalled or died. The bond between you two has not been broken, but you lost intimate closeness between you two that will let your love flourish, do not relax and be content with a relationship devoid of sexual tension. Not only may you study how to You can learn to adapt to a sexless long-term relationship without resorting to infidelity. Get back in touch with your loved one and reignite the flame of desire. Rekindle your enthusiasm by identifying and embracing your essential energy.


Why do some couples seem to have no chemistry? It's not the typical couple's choice to have an asexual relationship , typically something that develops with time; the novelty of the relationship eventually fades off and the fervor with it. Tensions in fresh partnerships like job, money, and a new baby, and you never seem to get a break. After weeks (and then months) of no sexual contact, you realize your in a partnership with no sexual relations. Both emotional and physical abuse can contribute to a sexless marriage such as Hormone disruptions, difficulties with one's health, Medications, stress, and mental health issues alike can reduce sexual desire.

It's also possible that you two were never a good fit sexually to begin with, or about whom you're never both "in the mood" at the same moment. And if You never seem to stop fighting.


So, why is it problematic to portray a partnership like this? There is no way that being accountable for your actions. You aren't considering the underlying causes of the issue and possible solutions.

With the correct approach, you can find new ways to be intimate despite whatever health problems you may be experiencing.

If your partnership has become sexually dull, your actual concern should be how to revitalize it.


Does a sexless marriage have a chance?

The quick answer is "yes," a sexless partnership can last, but there are some cautions.

If one partner wants sexual activity but the other doesn't? If you're not interested in having sexual relations, it can cause animosity and possibly even cheating by your partner.

Even in those cases where the sex desires of both couples are low, there is little tension between them, and so on.


Distance caused by things like military service, illness, or incapacity cause of the sexless relationship, thus they need to keep an eye out for it about finding alternative means of being close.

In the first kind of sexless relationship, the partners have unequal sexual desire.

You are emotionally distant due to long commutes or other relationship issues.

When unwanted, you must prioritize reigniting passion and intimacy, In order for a sexless partnership to endure, the partners involved must often lie to themselves and pretend everything is well.

Don't give in to the temptation, the loss of sexual intimacy in a long-term relationship can affect couples in different ways, but it shouldn't become the new standard.



Solutions to the long-term relationship sex problem shift your perspective first.

Do not worry about how to live through a long-term relationship without infidelity, rekindle your passion with fervor find out what you can do to restore physical intimacy and connection, most people are over the honeymoon phase after roughly two years and have to work at an active sex life. Long-term couples need to plan intimacy dates, bringing back that positive anticipation about being together.


An intimate bond strengthens your partnership.

Developing close relationships increases your sense of belonging, joy, and concern.

Even though there are many different kinds of closeness that can develop between two people (emotional, physical, intellectual, recreational, and spiritual), sexual closeness is often what distinguishes romantic partnerships from platonic ones. Without sex, couples tend to report feeling like roommates rather than partners.


Solutions to sexless partnership


1.Do not think your partner is sexually uninterested.

Don't make assumptions about your partner's sexual drive before consulting him or her. "When they came to see me, the husband expressed how far he felt from this diagnosis of low sex drive. However the Hormone test did not match the diagnosis He stated that the advise did not apply to him and that he no longer felt safe engaging in sexual activity because he knew it would be analyzed later."


2. Acknowledge any resentment you may feel related to intimacy -- then, take turns initiating sex.

If you hear "no, not tonight, honey" enough times, resentment and shame about your desire is bound to build up -- and that resentment usually bleeds into other areas of your relationship and lives. When this happens, the rejecting partner to recognize that the ball is now in their court to initiate intimacy.


3. Make time for sex.

Doesn't that sound unappealing? But it's sexier than no sex at all!

If you want sex to be a priority, you must make time for it as you would for anything else (household chores, exercise, meals, etc.). Could putting sex (or the code word "date-night") on your calendar be something to look forward to?

When you know that sex is on the way, it can feel both calming and exciting.


4. Communicate.

When couples come in for help in the bedroom, they frequently tell me that they do not discuss the issue. The less you talk about it, the less likely you are to have the sex you so desperately need. Communicate with empathy and compassion. "It's been a long time since we had sex."

"I miss you" is more effective than "How come we haven't had sex?! What's the matter with you?! You are a terrible partner!"

Discuss what has changed recently that has contributed to the lack of sex.

Remind each other of what you used to enjoy about sex. Discuss your fantasies, turn-on's, and new things you'd like to try. Sometimes starting the conversation is the most difficult part.

It's actually fun to talk about sex once you're talking!


5. Experiment.

Sometimes sex becomes the same old thing - shake things up! What worked for years may no longer be effective. Read erotica, watch pornography together, and buy sex toys.

Begin a conversation about your sexual desires and interests.

Incorporate new activities in the bedroom; alter your usual sexual routine and menu.

Wearing heels, listening to sexy music, experimenting with new sexual positions, or having sex in a different part of the house are just a few examples.


6. Incorporate mindfulness.

Couples can fall into a boring sexual routine as well as go into auto-pilot mode.

By default, auto-pilot means you're zoned out and not present in the moment.

Get up and tune in!

Slow down and pay attention to all your senses (sight, smell, touch, taste).

Touching different parts of your partner's body can become exponentially exciting and arousing if you slow down and take your time.

Rather than racing to the end, fully immerse yourself in the entire sex experience.


7. Take turns initiating.

Typically, the longer you are in a relationship, the more established your dynamic becomes, including who initiates sex.

A typical sexual dance is not necessarily a problem, but it can be if one of you is tired of your role.

If you are always the initiator, you may doubt your desirability, or you may feel pressured if your partner is always the initiator.

Even if you are content with your current roles, it can be exciting to try something new.

Imagine your surprise if your partner acts out of character and initiates sex!

If you are typically more passive, you may find it exciting and energising to take on a more active/initiator role.


8. Learn about sex and sexual issues.

If you have a sexual disorder (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, vaginismus, dyspareunia, anorgasmia, etc.), learn more about it.

It can help to normalize your symptoms, reducing stress and anxiety, and teaching you how to cope with the condition.

You may decide to seek counseling/sex therapy to benefit from a professional's advice in dealing with the problem.


9. Prioritize physical affection.

When sex becomes a source of contention in a relationship, physical affection often comes to a halt. It is critical to stay physically connected.

Touching reminds us that we are loved and creates a sense of closeness.

Physical touch releases "feel-good" hormones (oxytocin), decreases stress hormones (cortisol), and lowers blood pressure.

That is to say, physical touch has a positive effect on our brains, which is especially important if we are struggling emotionally due to a lack of sex.


10. Some couples are content with a sexless relationship.

If you are not one of those couples and want to reintroduce a healthy sexual connection, decide that sex is important and take the necessary steps.

Remember that you must actively participate in keeping sex alive; it will not sustain itself.

There is a good chance of regaining a satisfying sex life for couples who are emotionally intimate and willing to put in the effort.




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