top of page

7 Types Of Male Orgasms

Updated: Aug 2, 2021

When an orgasm begins, heart rate, blood pressure, and respiration all increase, a man's pelvic thrusts become less voluntary and more automatic, and the muscles of the penis begin to contract rhythmically in order to eject semen from the urethra. The orgasm marks the final stage of the arousal response in men.

What most men don’t know is that they can have other types of orgasms

*Ejaculatory orgasm*

This is the general type of orgasm that many men experience every time they have sex, or through masturbation. It doesn’t require much effort on their part to achieve it and it results in the ejaculation of sperm. There is literally no control over pelvic thrusting or when you reach this orgasm unless you work to control it.

*Pelvic Orgasm *

non-release release is non-enjaculatory multiple orgasm, or NEMO. The key to finding NEMO, is strengthening your pelvic floor — i.e., the muscles between the scrotum and rectum (the interior taint if you will) that you would use to stop urinating midstream. “Most guys don’t even know that they have them,” In addition to ameliorating premature ejaculation, they also affect a man’s posture, lower back and hips. One pathway toward achieving non-ejaculatory multiple orgasms, is by clenching the PC muscles right before orgasm to prevent it from happening. “Some guys lift their legs and shoulders up and do a crunch to assist in this, which kills the ejaculation while allowing the orgasm to occur.”

*Non-Ejaculatory (Retrograde Ejaculation) *

In a condition called retrograde ejaculation, the bladder’s sphincter does not close off properly during ejaculation, so semen spurts backward into the bladder. This condition is usually found in some men who have multiple sclerosis, diabetes, or after some types of prostate surgery.

It can also occasionally occur in men who do not have any serious problems. It is not physically harmful, but it does render the man infertile and he may have a different sensation during ejaculation. A retrograde ejaculation is also known as a “dry come” because the man may

experience orgasm, but no semen is released from the penis.

*Prostate Orgasm (direct stimulation) *

On either side of the prostate are nerves that control erections. These nerves can be stimulated through prostate touching and stroking. This orgasm is conjured by consistently stimulating the prostate gland either with a finger or through a toy. Men can achieve this orgasm only when

they are fully relaxed and into the stimulation.

External. You can actually find the prostate externally, too. Find the diamond-shaped area between the scrotum and the anus. If you apply some pressure there or massage that area, he might actually be able to orgasm just from that.

Internal. Anal penetration is the easiest way to find the P-Spot. Simply insert a finger or toy (with the right lubricant) and curl your fingertip towards the navel. The prostate should feel like a ripe plum: firm, with a little give to it. On the receiver’s side, some guys get fireworks as soon as their prostates get touched. Other guys report that it feels like they need to urinate. That means that you’re on the right spot, but using too much pressure. Back off a bit and try more gently.

One advantage to the prostate orgasm is that guys can actually have multiple. Because they don't necessarily ejaculate from this type of orgasm, it's called the "dry orgasm" and it allows them to keep going.

*Blended (Prostatic + Ejaculatory)*

The whole body orgasm stimulates both nerve pathways that are connected to the pelvic region. Once both the pelvic and the spinal regions are fully engaged you will experience a blended orgasm that fully stimulates your entire body. If you want to feel the most amazing sensation you

could ever imagine then this is the orgasm you want to experience. You can engage both sensations by getting both penis and prostate stimulation.

*Energy Orgasms (heart, vocal and full-body orgasms)*

These types of orgasms are full body orgasms without touching.* They use your breath and muscle contractions to generate orgasmic energy that flows through your body, resulting in male ejaculation. Incredible! Some are very strong, and some are wonderfully subtle. Generally, the more time you put into building up the energy, the more powerful the sensations. You'll experience "electricity" shooting through your entire body, hands and lips tingle, and there is a sense of release and receiving at the same time. You will feel high, euphoric, light-headed.

*Multi-Ejaculatory (non-refractory period) *

Most men usually have a refractory period (time in between each orgasm) to deal with—which lasts 30 minutes or more on average. But yes, men can orgasm again and again without having to cool down. Having multiple orgasms during sex and foreplay is 10x harder, but once you can do it, *here’s how to have multiple orgasms during sex.*

*Step One: Ejaculatory Control

Before you can have multiple orgasms, you need to get yourself to a certain level of ejaculatory control. You should be comfortable masturbating for 10+ minutes with constant

stimulation (not having to stop and start a ton of times). Without that kind of control, you won’t be able to slowly bring yourself up to the point of having a multiple orgasms, and you definitely won’t be able to keep yourself right at that threshold.

*Step Two: Kegel Exercises*

Having a multiple orgasm works by getting to the point of orgasm, and then flexing your PC muscle hard enough to block the ejaculate from actually escaping. But most men have a weak PC muscle, even if they can normally last a long time in bed, so you’ll need to… train yours until you have a vice-like grip behind your penis. You do this through kegel exercises { can be found in the men's section of this website} The PC muscle is located right behind your balls and before your anus. You’ve felt it when you’re trying to prevent yourself from peeing, or when you start peeing and then try to make yourself stop. It’s also the muscle that you use to prevent yourself from ejaculating, and that flexes and spasms when you’re orgasming. So in order to stop yourself from ejaculating, you need to develop a strong PC muscle.

Start by practicing your kegels 2-3 times a day until you can hold for 20+ seconds. That’s when you’re at the point that you can squeeze hard enough to pull yourself back from the edge.

Once you’re there, keep doing kegels for maintenance.

*Step Three: Daily Practice*

While you’re learning to have multiple orgasms, set aside 20+ minutes each night to masturbate and work on it. Once you’ve practiced enough you can go for a few days without it, but until you have it mastered, set that time aside every night. During the practice, work yourself up to a peak (somewhere around a 9-9.5 out of 10 for how close you are to orgasming) and then bring

yourself back down to a 5-7. This is called “edging.” Once you’ve mastered edging, you can start to separate the orgasm and ejaculation.

*Step Four: Separating Orgasm and Ejaculation*

To have non-ejaculatory orgasms, you need to train your body to separate the experience or orgasm and ejaculation. You’ve likely experienced ejaculation and orgasm at the same time for

your entire life, but that’s just a strategic biological move on your body’s part. Orgasm is not caused by ejaculating, rather it normally happens in sync with and actually slightly before ejaculating. Your body needs to make sure you don’t stop pumping away as you get closer to cumming (since it wants to reproduce), so it gets you closer to orgasming as motivation.

All we have to do is un-train that impulse. That’s where partial orgasm separation comes in.

train yours until you have a vice-like grip behind your penis.


Recent Posts

See All


bottom of page