Incredible Oral Sex Positions For Wild Orgasms

What is oral sex?

Oral sex is a sexual activity in which one party uses their mouth, lips, and tongue to stimulate the intimate regions of the other partner. Various forms of oral sex exist, including fellatio, which entails stimulation of the penis; cunnilingus, which involves stimulation of the clitoris; and anilingus, which pertains to the stimulation of the anus.

Individuals with a vulva often assert that oral sex may transform a mediocre sexual encounter into an extraordinary orgasmic experience.

If you have ever engaged in oral sex, whether giving or receiving, you likely have one or two preferred positions that are effective for you. Although it may be simple, quick, and economical to repeatedly engage in the same configuration, there are several methods for doing oral sex, equivalent to the variety present in intercourse—and a compelling case exists for diversifying your practice.

Research indicates that conventional penile-vaginal intercourse is insufficient for the majority of vulva owners to achieve orgasm; a 2017 study published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy revealed that nearly 75% of women reported requiring external clitoral stimulation for orgasm or that such stimulation enhanced their orgasmic experience. (Only 18% said that they could get satisfaction only from vaginal penetration.) My buddy, here is where oral sex becomes relevant. Additionally, many individuals assert that oral sex is, in some respects, more intimate than penetrative intercourse. In summary, it is an excellent method to strengthen your connection with your mate.

1. Consent is crucial, unequivocally.

Prior to engaging in any activity, it is essential to adhere to the fundamental principle: No sexual intercourse without permission. Indeed, even oral sex. Some individuals are unequivocally disinterested in both receiving and performing oral sex — and that is quite OK. Prioritizing your partner's desires is paramount. No forceful head lowering and no pleading. If the response is negative, acknowledge it and proceed accordingly.

2. Engage in prior dialogue.

The optimal moment to discuss your preferences and aversions to sexual activities, whether oral or penetrative, is while fully clothed. This enables you and your spouse to engage in a dialogue that is neither coercive nor imbued with any kind of pressure. Review your preferences, aversions, any dreams of interest, or any absolute prohibitions. Thus, when you are in a critical situation, all parties are aware of the regulations.

It is important to remember that any conversations before to sexual activity do not invalidate any alterations that may transpire during the act itself. If an individual withdraws permission during sexual activity, all actions must cease immediately and entirely. A pre-sex affirmation does not invalidate a intercourse refusal.

3. Motivation is crucial.

Certain individuals see oral sex as unsanitary or humiliating, and this stigma may inhibit others from deriving pleasure from the act. Given the prevalence of these unfavorable sentiments, ensure your partner is aware of your desire to perform oral sex on them. Express candidly the temperature and flavor quality. Facilitating their comfort and sensuality in their body will promote relaxation. Naturally, an individual who is calm is more predisposed to achieving orgasm.

4. Do not be embarrassed by your lack of experience.

It is entirely acceptable to be uncertain about your preferences or to lack knowledge regarding oral sex. Indeed, some of the most gratifying sexual encounters are those that involve exploration. Communicate openly with your partner(s) about your experience to ensure mutual understanding. Furthermore, do not feel compelled to engage in advanced activities immediately.

5. Begin gradually and engage all five senses.

Gradually acclimate yourself, particularly if you are inexperienced with oral sex. Responding to immediate, intense stimuli can be challenging, so engage in gentle teasing. "I believe all forms of sexual activity should be approached with sensuality," Howard states. "Living sensually allows one to experience sex through all five senses." You are contemplating the rigidity of the penis in contrast to the softness of the mouth, or the sensation of the clitoris against the smoothness of the lips.

Consider stimulating the glans of your partner's penis with your tongue prior to fully enveloping it with your mouth. Alternatively, engage your fingers on your partner's clitoris before proceeding to oral stimulation. Take a moment to savor your partner's scent and the cadence of their breathing, allowing oral sex to be experienced as a sensual act rather than merely a sexual one.

6. Attend to and observe non-verbal signals.

In intense situations, the recipient of oral sex may find it challenging to articulate their feelings. Therefore, it is crucial for the provider to be attentive and observe non-verbal signals. Engle states, "If they are pressing into your face and moaning, you can be fairly certain your actions are effective. However, if they are withdrawing or remaining silent, consider altering your approach." If their feelings remain unclear, do not hesitate to inquire. As Engle asserts, "Communication is lubrication."

7. Utilize your hands as well.

For a partner with a penis, simultaneously stimulate the shaft while orally engaging with the glans. This technique enhances the area of stimulation, which can be exceptionally pleasurable for some. For a partner with a clitoris and vulva, do not hesitate to stimulate the clitoris with your thumb between oral actions. Alternatively, insert a few fingers into the vagina while orally stimulating the clitoris, targeting the G-spot, which is the spongy area located just beneath the mons pubis. Employ a come-hither motion with two fingers to gently stimulate this sensitive region.

When selecting the appropriate oral position, consider several inquiries. “One aspect that individuals find pleasurable about oral sex is the power dynamic, which can stem from either the giver or receiver, depending on the context.” Reflect on what specifically makes receiving oral appealing to you: do you relish the sensation of relaxation and surrender, or do you favor a sense of empowerment and control? Conversely, when in the role of the giver, do you appreciate the notion of your partner yielding to you, or do you prefer receiving directives? Your responses may assist in identifying the position that you find most arousing, whether it be face-sitting or the butterfly technique.

Is it possible to get a sexually transmitted infection via oral sex?

Indeed. Similar to any sexual activity involving the exchange of body fluids without a protective barrier, such as a condom or dental dam, the transmission of STD/STIs is possible.

Dental dams might be appealing.

To be clear: Yes, oral intercourse may transmit STD/STIs, and it is imperative to safeguard both yourself and your partner. Enter the dental dam. Does it diminish the experience? Not if you choose not to see it that way.

“Oral barriers such as dental dams are engineered to be sufficiently thin to allow for the perception of pressure and sensation,” states Finn. “Some are available in various flavors, or flavored lubricant can be applied to enhance enjoyment.” Consider it akin to flavored lubricant for your face: a combination of safety and sensation in an appealing format!

If the concept remains uncomfortable, alter your approach. Utilize it as an opportunity for playfulness, engage in light teasing, or include it into the anticipation. Being a considerate and secure partner is really appealing, particularly when you exhibit exceptional skill with your mouth.

These positions are also suitable for same-sex partners.

Here are the optimal positions to explore with your Female partner this evening.

ON YOUR BACK

The recipient should recline supine on a bed, couch, or another flat surface, with their legs apart and flexed at the knees. This arrangement provides additional space for the provider to position their torso between the legs. To ensure that the provider is stimulating the recipient's clitoris, they can

Extend an arm over the recipient's legs to the apex of their vulva and manipulate it with their fingertips.

The Butterfly Technique

 This technique resembles the previous one but introduces a variation for the recipient. the receiver's legs are spread open like a butterfly. Individuals with vulvas and penises can attempt this maneuver; however, for those performing cunnilingus, this position allows enhanced access to various areas of the partner's vulva. If the recipient appreciates simultaneous stimulation, the giver can concentrate on the clitoris with their tongue while employing fingers or a toy to stimulate the G-spot.

The Kivin Method

Similar to previous positions, the receiver reclines supine; however, in this variation, the giver assumes a perpendicular stance, approaching the partner's genitals from a novel angle. "This technique is typically employed on vulvas," it is noted that it may facilitate orgasm by allowing pressure to be applied to the perineum. Nonetheless, this method can also be utilized during oral sex on a penis; akin to Classic Oral, it enables control over depth and speed while offering the partner a fresh visual experience.

The Throne

Position the receiver in a chair or on the edge of a bed or couch, while their partner kneels before them. This traditional stance is effective for both vulva and penis receivers. It is particularly advantageous for fellatio, as it affords the giver comfort and accessibility, In this arrangement, the giver can effectively regulate depth and speed, and a seated position may alleviate jaw strain compared to a recumbent posture.

Assuming the North Face/South Face position

This is an advantageous maneuver for a subtle display of dominance or for allowing a receiving partner to dictate the speed, rhythm, and sensations experienced. "Assuming the top position enables one to regulate the type of stimulation desired." The receiver positions themselves over their partner's face, aligning their genitals with the giver's mouth. This position also facilitates a seamless transition to a 69 configuration.

Doggy Position

The recipient should ascend onto a bed, sofa, or another flat surface with sufficient space behind them, positioning themselves on all fours and spreading their legs apart. To facilitate access for the provider, the recipient may prefer to lower themselves onto their forearms instead of resting on their hands, while arching their back and tilting their pelvis upward towards the ceiling. This adjustment will elevate the recipient's posterior, bringing it closer to the provider's mouth.

The provider may either ascend onto the bed and bend down to engage with their partner's genitals or remain seated at the edge and draw their partner closer.

The Sovereign Seat

The individual seated in the chair is raised and stimulated from below, allowing the receiver to choose the angle of pleasure, making it one of the most varied oral sex positions.

"One partner occupies a seated position, either in a chair, on the edge of a bed, or on a couch, while the other partner kneels to perform oral sex on the seated partner."

Experiment with the angle of stimulation to determine the most effective position for you. This may include the receiver resting their feet or elevating one foot into the next chair, therefore fully exposing oneself to the provider.

Drive-Thru Sexual Position

 In the Drive-Thru position, one partner reclines on the floor while the other stands with legs apart over their face. This arrangement provides substantial control for both partners; the individual on the floor can freely engage in oral stimulation, while the standing partner can modify pressure and focus by adjusting their body position or rocking back and forth.

Fold

In the Folded variation of the Eagle position, the woman elevates her legs towards her chest, granting the man enhanced oral and manual access compared to most cunnilingus positions. However, this position is more challenging to sustain for individuals with limited flexibility. It is advisable to experiment with pillows beneath the woman's pelvis to achieve the most comfortable angle for both partners.

Folded Servant Sexual Position

In the Folded variation of the Servant, the woman elevates her legs and draws them toward her chest, facilitating easier access to both the vaginal opening and the rectum. Consequently, men may find it significantly less taxing to explore her anatomy. This enhanced accessibility also applies to fingering, which can be performed comfortably while engaging in oral stimulation. The sole drawback identified is the diminished visibility of the performance, which can be remedied by slightly spreading her legs.

Muff Diver, Her Suplex

The Oral Waterfall position may not be the most instinctive transition, yet it is rewarding for women who appreciate the sensation of submission. While some may prefer to position their legs over their partner's shoulders, we suggest anchoring the feet on the sofa to facilitate grinding and assist in locating optimal pleasure points.

The Alteration

She positions herself upright with her feet aligned shoulder-width apart. You kneel between her legs, aligning your mouth with her clitoris. You provide her pleasure as she directs your head with her hands. She may elevate one foot onto a neighboring chair, bed, or couch to facilitate access to her clitoris.

THE ARCH

The arch oral sex position is particularly advantageous for those who encounter difficulty or agony while flexing their back (i.e., bending over), and it resembles one of the most effective sexual positions post-menopause, due to the usage of a cushion (or pillows) placed underneath the receiver.

The recipient of oral sex reclines on their back with a series of pillows positioned beneath their lower back, the number varying according to personal comfort. The performer then positions themselves between the recipient's legs, either supporting themselves on their elbows atop the pillows for optimal stability or kneeling at the foot of the bed.

Optimal oral sex positions to explore with your Male partner

Stand and Exhale

She kneels before you and envelops your shaft with her mouth. By shielding her teeth with her lips, she varies her speed and strokes your shaft with her hands while caressing the glans with her tongue and stimulating your perineum with her fingers.

The Shift

From the usual position, the woman rotates 90 degrees in either direction, rendering her body perpendicular to his. This adjustment puts the remainder of her body within arm's reach, facilitating his access to her breasts, arms, buttocks, back, or enabling manual stimulation, should he want to do so.

The 'Boss' Chair'

You lay on a couch or chair, parting your legs. She kneels before you, performing oral stimulation. In addition to stroking, sucking, and licking your shaft, she may provide manual stimulation, swirling her tongue around the glans and caressing your testicles.

 She will find this posture quite pleasant and will appreciate having full control over the intensity and tempo of the activity. Achieving orgasm in this soothing position will be effortless.

Reverse Hovering Butterfly or the Face Fuck position.

She reclines while you position yourself over her. She may utilize her hands to caress your shaft and regulate the rhythm and depth as she orally engages with you. You can adjust the angle by elevating your knees or lowering your body. This posture affords substantial control over the tempo and depth of your thrusts.

The 'Plumber'

Similar to the 'Reverse Face Sitter' position, she reclines while you kneel beside her head. You lean forward, distributing your weight onto your hands and knees, akin to a plumber examining a leaking sink. You may either thrust into her mouth or allow her to perform oral stimulation while you remain stationary. If you prefer to assert dominance, you will appreciate the ability to thrust back and forth into her mouth in this position. However, exercise caution by commencing slowly!

Esophageal Sword Performer

The position involves the man facing his partner. Due to the nearly linear alignment of the woman's mouth and throat, it is often regarded as optimal for deep throating and is also quite comfortable. Additionally, it excels in providing visual access to and interaction with her breasts. Considering the challenges of breathing during deep throating, we strongly advise novices to proceed gradually.

She reclines on the couch, positioning herself with her legs elevated and aligned along the backrest. Her head rests at or beyond the edge of the sofa. You kneel and penetrate her orally.

Canine Position

This position resembles the traditional doggy style for complete penetration, but the woman is oriented to utilize her mouth rather than her vagina. The man kneels while the woman is positioned on her hands and knees before him. A doggy style blowjob serves as an effective interlude between penetrative acts, enhancing the energy and replenishing arousal levels.

If he gently retracts his hips, he will be able to transition to a more dynamic, thrusting style, provided that it aligns with your preferences.

Highway Terminus

If you are unaware of the dangers of distracted driving, engaging in oral sex with an active driver is ill-advised. This behavior not only endangers other motorists but also places a vulnerable body part in a precarious position during an accident. Despite this warning, the act is relatively simple to initiate and can be executed in various settings where two individuals can sit adjacent to one another. However, it may impose strain on the woman's upper body and neck, making it less suitable for prolonged engagement.

Standing Sexual Position

The Standing Fuck Face position provides men with greater mobility compared to its kneeling counterpart. Similar to the standard variation, this position is straightforward to assume and execute, although it may cause some neck strain. While we opted for the bed for aesthetic purposes, we discovered that this position is more effectively performed at the edge of a couch, minimizing strain on the woman's back.

Optimal Oral Sex Positions for Mutual Enjoyment

The Sixty-Nine

Recline on the bed and allow your partner to position herself over your face. She can regulate the intensity of the oral stimulation on her clitoris by either elevating or pressing her pelvis against your mouth. This posture facilitates fellatio and provides her with unobstructed access to your testicles and perineum. Many individuals encounter challenges in achieving climax in this position, rendering it ideal for extended foreplay before intercourse when a measured approach is desired.

The 'Reverse 69'

The man must ensure his hips are positioned at an appropriate height for his partner's comfort, utilizing a pillow under her head for precise adjustment. Additionally, it is advisable to discuss beforehand the permissible level of thrusting from above, as it may be challenging for the man to reduce intensity while occupied orally.

Sideways 69

The Sideways 69 position features headrests for both partners. This variation offers a comfortable alternative to the classic position, accommodating those with physical limitations, a desire for relaxation, or a commitment to equality. Partners can easily switch control by rolling over at any moment.

The Crouching Tiger

This variation of the 69 position is somewhat uncomfortable and necessitates considerable flexibility from the woman to assume, maintain, and perform oral sex. The most straightforward way to achieve this position is to begin with the traditional Butler, then transition through the Leaning Butler and Bent Butler until the woman can reach her partner orally. Men may find it beneficial to place pillows under their knees, while women should bend their knees to prevent strain.

The 'Standing 69' or 'Pisces'

This technique is advanced and feasible primarily if you possess significant strength or if your partner is notably petite. It resembles the 'Sixty Nine' position but with you standing. The most straightforward method to assume this position involves lifting your partner by her waist and rotating her. Alternatively, have her stand on a chair, sofa, or bed while you face her. You encircle her waist as she transitions into a downward-facing position. By securing your arms around her midsection, you can adequately support her. In this inverted position, she performs oral sex while you reciprocate.