Breast massage

You’re Not Alone! Many Women Don’t Like Being Touched in Certain Places

  I want to convey that loudly and clearly. A lot of ladies don't want to have sex with certain areas of their body. For some, it may be just the nipple; for others, it might be the whole breast; and for others, it might be him putting his fingers within the vagina. Breasts undergo significant changes. We confine them inside bras, implore them to resist gravity, depend on them to nourish children, and subject women to yearly mammograms. The breasts include mammary glands that synthesize milk, along with a sophisticated arrangement of lobes, ducts, blood arteries, adipose and fibrous tissues, and lymphatic veins.

Breasts are dynamic organs that literally expand and contract monthly during the menstrual cycle, with their glands undergoing continual changes throughout life stages such as puberty, pregnancy, postpartum, and menopause; all while being compressed against the chest wall by a bra that impedes circulation and drainage.

It is not surprising that our breasts may sometimes experience soreness and tenderness

Massage may contribute to breast health. The potential advantages include:

To provide your breasts with care and get additional health advantages, contemplate breast massage. It entails delicately applying pressure on and manipulating the soft tissue of the breasts.

By connecting with our breasts, we unlock our healing capacity and establish a profound connection to the feminine. Numerous advantages encompass:

It facilitates the establishment of a profound and affectionate bond with our breasts. Enabling us to value and embrace our breasts and bodies as they are.

Infusing energy, focus, and tactile engagement into this environment enhances their sensitivity and fosters activity. Your breasts seem more invigorated and dynamic when you engage with them in this manner.

Promotes women's health - massaging the breasts stimulates the lymphatic system, enhancing natural immunity and facilitating the elimination of toxins that would otherwise stay stagnant in the body.

It hardens the breast tissue and stimulates the nipples.

It emanates profoundly sustaining and nurturing energy, which we sometimes seek outside, however it is activated from inside ourselves. The energy we may access by nurturing our breasts affectionately is profoundly restorative and enhances our everyday vigor.

It ignites our intrinsic divine feminine energy inside our bodies and life. When the feminine power is awakened inside you, it emanates from your core and enhances enjoyment in all aspects of your life.

While breast massagers are available, they are superfluous; manual techniques suffice.

In Taoism, the breasts are referred to be the bells of love. How exquisite is that?

Looking Back at Your Past

 Because of prior abuse or things, we've seen on TV or in movies when we were younger that scared us, certain body parts or actions, like oral sex, might be incredibly frightening for us. We could also feel quite ashamed of certain areas of our body. For example, a lot of women with bigger breasts were very embarrassed when they were 11 or 12 and their breasts began to expand. No one else in their class at school had them. So, they were made fun of.

And later, as you became older, maybe even older men would be interested in them. It made you feel horrible. It made you believe males were nasty. It made you sick.

When your spouse touches you there now, it brings up memories of when you were completely disgusted and scared.

Not everyone who dislikes having their breasts touched or another part of their body feels this way, but it is rather prevalent.

In a way, you've acquired a fear of it. You CAN get over your fears. I'll talk more about it in a minute.

Look into the Control Issue

 Do you dread having your breasts touched or do you detest someone else caressing them? I've had letters from ladies in both situations. For example, one lady couldn't bear it if someone else touched her breasts, but she could manage it if she did. Another lady panicked when her husband attempted to put his fingers in her vagina, but she couldn't either.

 Check the time.

Things we really don't like might suddenly feel good soon before climax. You may not enjoy having your breasts touched (and you really don't), but when you're extremely turned on, you do. A lot of women say their nipples are too sensitive to touch, yet just before they climax, they want them sucked or pinched. But they may not know it about themselves until they look! You may want to check it out, however. Is it a timing thing? Or is it really all the time?

See How Sensitive You Are

Being absolutely grossed out is not the same as not being turned on. Do you want to run away and scream when someone touches you, like this lady here? Or do you just start making a shopping list in your thoughts when he touches your breasts, for example? Is it that it makes you sick, or is it simply not sexual for you?

The Best Breast Massage Guide for Couples

You may perform this message in two distinct ways. You may do it down with her hips with her legs crossed over yours. You may also place one or two pillows beneath you in this posture, which can make you quite comfortable.

It's important that you're comfortable before you start this massage. If you're shaking, uncomfortable, or have a sore back, she'll definitely feel it. You may either sit at her head, kneel, or stretch your legs out straight. If you use pillows to support yourself, this may be quite helpful. If you need even more help, you might have her lay on the edge of the bed with her head at the edge and you sitting on a chair. This would provide her with the greatest support.

You should start by saying three nice things about her breasts. Tell her what you admire about her breasts, such the shape, the color, the way the nipples appear, or anything else. This provides a beautiful mood for the whole thing.

You should rub the oil on your hands. Think of putting more oil on your hands than you normally would, but not so much that it drips on her. And you're going to use the flat parts of your hands to rub around the outside of her breasts. So, you're really going into the breast tissue, but you're using your hands to massage deep, hard, and slower than you think you need to. Very slowly and very deeply.

Ask her whether she loves the pace and the pressure and change it if she doesn't. So, it's great to give her the ability to say what she loves. Some women are quite adept at this, but many women find it hard to urge you to modify anything.

Put your hands under the breasts and hold them up. Slowly, without touching the nipples, glide your hands up to your side boob, then over the top of your breasts, and finally back down in between your breasts (over your heart-space). start to wake up the nerve endings by putting medium to strong pressure on them. I do this circular motion 5 to 10 times before changing directions.

 With your palms flat, put them just below the collarbone. Move your hand slowly and in long, sweeping gestures along your chest toward the nipples. You may do this in a smooth manner, with one hand sweeping after the other.

Blowing : Lots of sex guides would suggest that you should deliberately avoid contact with key areas in order to build anticipation. One way to do this is to give her a sense of being touched without touching her at all.

Lightly blowing on her breasts stimulates the tiny hairs on the skin that will surely drive her wild. Do this by slightly opening your mouth over her nipple and exhaling, or lightly blowing lines over her breasts like blowing a candle.

Gentle scratching: The keyword here is ‘gentle’! Use the tip of your fingernails make sure they are trimmed to lightly trace lines over the skin of her breasts all the way to areola and nipples making your touch lighter as you reach the center.

Nipple Stimulation: The nipples are quite sensitive. After the first massage, use your thumb and fingers to softly circle the nipple, squeezing it lightly from time to time. You may also use your fingers to trace around the areola with a feather-like touch.

It’s not just for women!

That’s right. Men can also have nipple orgasms. While women are typically more sensitive in their nipples, men have been known to have orgasms through nipple play, too.

So don’t think that women are the only ones who can feel this extreme pleasure. Men can get in on the fun, too! It might take a bit more work on the man’s side and you’ll definitely have to find a man open to this type of sexual activity, but if you put in the effort, it’ll be worth it.